HEY ALL!! family members can be the worse

    "    Will it be poison put in my glass, will it be slow or will it be fast, the bike of a snake the sting of a spider, a drink of belladonna on a Toussaint night, hiding in a corner in New York City, lookin' down a fourty-four in West Virginia, one night I was dancin' with a lady in black, wearin' black silk gloves and a black silk hat    "    Well we had our carpets cleaned on Monday afternoon. The guy went to my sister's place first and then to our place. I had my daughters move the big furniture out of the rooms before they went back home on Sunday night. They REAL big stuff stayed in place. There were a couple of recliners and the dinning room table that had to be 'shuffled' around. COOL! The carpet got done and I let things dry out. My sister called later in the day to see how things went. She at that time offered to send her hubby by on Tuesday or Wednesday after work to help move back the items that were too hard for us. Mainly the end tables and the n to just get things 'back in their place'. Well never saw him all week, AND never heard from my sister all week. So I took it upon myself to do a little moving each day. I had a feelin' that there would be NO help. So this morning I am down to the end tables and final arranging of furniture. I posted on Facebook the other day about 'slowly' getting the house back to normal. This morning she post, 'let her know if we want some help, maybe hubby and son can come over this weekend'. I respond, 'you promised hubby some time this week'. Her response was 'he had to work late'. I posted all this on facebook as my mom so I would not get her fierce language back. Well I have not and will not respond to her last post. My first thought was 'how about you pick up the F*&^(#@ phone and call us to let us know he is working late'. But that is just NOT her. She has a VERY bad habit of offering her hubby and son to help out, and then totally bailing on the promise.  I am just tired of it. I will drag the end table into place today and do some arranging the next couple of days as my back and legs will allow. I have managed to change out the plant bulb, bring my guitar stuff back out front, get the big rug down and the table on top of it, move all the dinning room chairs to where we want, put the small rug where we want. So thanks, but NO THANKS. I just don't get it. She has no regard for anyone else. She is SO quick to volunteer but then VERY rarely follows through. She seems to be getting worse as the years go by. AND, if I'm the one that asks it's even worse. But she still does this to our mom as well. This just struck me wrong today. Either follow up on your promises, OR STOP MAKING THEM!! So I got to go put my house back in order. WITHOUT HELP!!  CHOW MOI!!